Your Fucking Happy.
Dec. 20th, 2001 04:55 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
wolven7Look, people, take some responsibility, here. You're all gung-ho to take credit for the shit you do right in your lives, but the shit that goes wrong, gets put to someone else. Yeah, there are those tymes when you are being royally Fucked, and it is not your fault, and we al understand that. But there are also those tymes when it IS your fault. There is that line.
Personal responsibility isn't simply saying "yeah, i fucked up. Sorry." It's saying "Shit, dood, my bad. What can i do to help Fix this thing that i have so royally screwed over?" That goes for your ife, the lives of those around you, anything where you screw up something you didn't mean to. If you did mean to, OWN UP TO IT! What's the problem there? Admiting that you did something does nothing that people wouldn't have figured out, themselves, except attribute you with some modicum of integrity, and a bit of Hardcore. Even enemies respect that sort of thing.
If there are things that make you happy, let them be known, to your friends and loved ones. If there are things you would prefer not to happen, see above. If, however, there is a situation with a fairly clear outcome and something does or does not happen about which you NEVER let your feelings be known, realise that is completely your fault, and take some fucking responsibility for it. It'll save us some tyme and trouble.
Your life is yours to lead, and anything that you CAN control, one would think that you WOULD control. But no. People flit and float through, allowling things to happen baddly, or well, and not taking any responsibility. Or fault. Or Credit. All different, interconnected things, here. Something CAN be your responsibility, without being your fault, you know? Take it. Embrace it.
i've had a long long life of figuring this out, for myself, and then helping others trying to figure it out. i'm nothing, you know? If i can figure this shite out, why can't other people? What's so frightening about being Responsible? Blah...
Dead but Dreaming....
Personal responsibility isn't simply saying "yeah, i fucked up. Sorry." It's saying "Shit, dood, my bad. What can i do to help Fix this thing that i have so royally screwed over?" That goes for your ife, the lives of those around you, anything where you screw up something you didn't mean to. If you did mean to, OWN UP TO IT! What's the problem there? Admiting that you did something does nothing that people wouldn't have figured out, themselves, except attribute you with some modicum of integrity, and a bit of Hardcore. Even enemies respect that sort of thing.
If there are things that make you happy, let them be known, to your friends and loved ones. If there are things you would prefer not to happen, see above. If, however, there is a situation with a fairly clear outcome and something does or does not happen about which you NEVER let your feelings be known, realise that is completely your fault, and take some fucking responsibility for it. It'll save us some tyme and trouble.
Your life is yours to lead, and anything that you CAN control, one would think that you WOULD control. But no. People flit and float through, allowling things to happen baddly, or well, and not taking any responsibility. Or fault. Or Credit. All different, interconnected things, here. Something CAN be your responsibility, without being your fault, you know? Take it. Embrace it.
i've had a long long life of figuring this out, for myself, and then helping others trying to figure it out. i'm nothing, you know? If i can figure this shite out, why can't other people? What's so frightening about being Responsible? Blah...
Dead but Dreaming....
