So I thought this was to be a random question... but woo hoo, it really isnt any more! So I was just wondering about your opinion on "heart break"... but more having to do with who should shoulder the blame (the person who feels it or the person who "causes" it)?
Honestly, it's not an all or nothing, and one can't Make someone shoulder anything they don't want to carry; they can always walk away from it.
So, to answer, it's a mutual thing: At some point, if you don't want to feel that way, anymore, you're going to have to decide to not feel that way, and do whatever it takes to not let that person make you feel that way. Removing whatever emotional ties, severed and burned-like. At the same time, the person who "causes" it should be aware of what they've done, and do what they can to make it easier, if they care, at all. If not, then they don't care (tautological).
There's more than enough responsibility to go around, and not nearly enough people picking up their share.
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timeasmymeasure
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Date: 2004-10-31 12:17 pm (UTC)Go talk to the Darkness, sometime tonight.
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not so much a non-sequitur
Date: 2004-10-31 07:52 pm (UTC)Re: not so much a non-sequitur
So, to answer, it's a mutual thing: At some point, if you don't want to feel that way, anymore, you're going to have to decide to not feel that way, and do whatever it takes to not let that person make you feel that way. Removing whatever emotional ties, severed and burned-like. At the same time, the person who "causes" it should be aware of what they've done, and do what they can to make it easier, if they care, at all. If not, then they don't care (tautological).
There's more than enough responsibility to go around, and not nearly enough people picking up their share.