wolven7 | An Experiement:

Chevelle - [The Red]--- Everyone take the stance, with their friends, of "If they want to talk to me, then they can contact me," and have Them do the same, with you. See what happens. Now i know that some people are paranoid, and will call, as soon as contact is broken, due to insecurity, and not knowing what's going on, but, all things being equal, here, people, we should be looking at a web of silence and non-communication, by the end of the week. This is not necessarily a Good thing.

Nine Inch Nails - [The Becoming]--- All things being equal (h, how i hate that phrase, but it does help to make point :\) , thinking that people aren't contacting you, because they don't want to speak to you, or thinking that making the first contact movement is a sign of... whateverthefuck it's supposed be a sign of, is only going to leave you feeling more alone, and dejected, or whatever than you already do.

There are times when you feel like you've approached enough, and you want to Be approached. I know these times. I also know that, if people don't want to be around me, if even only for a little while, i've told them to fucking Tell me so. Otherwise what's the point of friendship? If i can't tell you to go the fuck away, for a little while, because i need some space, or some Certain influences, and you don't happen to be one of them, without you getting out-of-sorts, and Heavily offended, then what are we doing?

So, seriously, give all of the things, here, a shot. Try that total honesty, and that not getting pissed. Try the Silence untilthe other breaks it. (LUXT - [Infinite]). Try Expression, and trying to understand when people need not to be around you.

And after you've tried all of those things, you tell me to go Fuck myself, and do whatever works for you.

*Smile* Ta.