*ragged sigh*
Feb. 19th, 2002 04:50 pmSo i'm sitting here at the rec centre at school, reading people's livejournal posts, and you know what i've come to realise? People don't understand people for shit. More to the point, people don't understand Me for shit. But that sounds selfish, so we'll stick with the broad categories, yes? Yes. Now i know what you're thinking: "Big news, Wolven. We've all learned this, on our own, and we've heard it from you, numerous times." Well you're going to hear it again. And again. And again and again, until you people realise that this shit is important and needs to be worked at, not just looked at. So here it is, again, and i hope it Drive the point home:
People don't understand people for shit. We make attemps at understanding, and, as soon as we don't Immediately Succeed, we get frustrated and quit. What is that supposed to accomplish? If you want to know what someone thinks, feels, or knows, ask them. Whatever and however they answer you, especially if it's the Truth, will give you glorious insight, as to who they are. Taking what is given to you and saying, "This isn't what I wanted, and it's too hard to get," isn't going to help anything.
i'm trying to help some people understand me. That's what this LJ is all about. Some people, i can talk to in person. Some people i can't. They get to read this. Remember my post from last nyte? The Cliché? Well, i try to do that, as much as i possibly can. i don't understand why it's so difficult, for some... i don't want to be distant from anyone. i've said this before. And while i may be physically distant from Many of you, what i Mean is that i never want to be mentally or emotionally distant...
Apperantly, a lot of the things i've said and done lately, have caused some people some undue pain, and for that i am sorry. i don't mean for that to happen. i don't know what else to say, here... i guess i'm going to go, now. Good Days. Good Nytes. Dream Well
People don't understand people for shit. We make attemps at understanding, and, as soon as we don't Immediately Succeed, we get frustrated and quit. What is that supposed to accomplish? If you want to know what someone thinks, feels, or knows, ask them. Whatever and however they answer you, especially if it's the Truth, will give you glorious insight, as to who they are. Taking what is given to you and saying, "This isn't what I wanted, and it's too hard to get," isn't going to help anything.
i'm trying to help some people understand me. That's what this LJ is all about. Some people, i can talk to in person. Some people i can't. They get to read this. Remember my post from last nyte? The Cliché? Well, i try to do that, as much as i possibly can. i don't understand why it's so difficult, for some... i don't want to be distant from anyone. i've said this before. And while i may be physically distant from Many of you, what i Mean is that i never want to be mentally or emotionally distant...
Apperantly, a lot of the things i've said and done lately, have caused some people some undue pain, and for that i am sorry. i don't mean for that to happen. i don't know what else to say, here... i guess i'm going to go, now. Good Days. Good Nytes. Dream Well
Understand....
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*hides behind big metallic wings*
Shit...Damned big shiny things always giving me away....*stomps off*
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Date: 2002-02-20 05:30 pm (UTC)dearest wolven...
Date: 2002-02-19 03:42 pm (UTC)I consider you a pain-free friend.
Miscommunication is frustrating but its always worth it to keep trying.