Uh... HUH....

[wolven7]

You might be surprised at your romantic partner's affection, WOLVEN. You could come home to a home-cooked meal and a cozy, snuggly sweetheart. Or you might be invited to join your honey for a romantic dinner in a special restaurant. Focus on your relationship, and enjoy the time that you spend together. Sometimes you get so wrapped up in your work that your forget to pay close attention to your partner.

Uhm..... Sorry? *licks*

Opinion: Do you want to know Absolutely Everything about the person you love? Before you answer, think about and Truly Realise the fact that what you find could very well scare the shit out of you. Consider all of the implications of that fact. The fact that you love them, and who they are, and that their motivations, and machinations are influenced, subconsciously, totally, by Everything about them... What will that say about you? About them? About your future together? Now I ask you again... Do you want to know?

Think about that. Answer here, if you like.

Dream Well

Comments

[raoin.livejournal.com]

i know you're over there right now helping patrick show ronnie and lloyd the car, but i'm here. and i feel as though i have something pertinent to say in the matter of knowing everything about a loved one. i'd say one of the main reasons patrick and i got together is because of that second thursday at the chamber, the one where we sat and talked for the entire time we were there. further our relationship since then has been built upon the open presentation of the truth and a respect of the honesty required to share. i'm not saying there are not moments where one or the other of us doesnt wait a few days, a week, or so to tell the other something that was on his/her mind, only that the knowledge does in the proper time and setting get revealed. i dont want to know everything about my lover all at once. who would? if you learn everything about them in one fell swoop then what they represent to you holds no mystery anymore. you've sucked the essence of them clean out of them. i speak not in theory on this matter, but from expereince as cory was always very insistent that i tell him EVERYTHING, and all at once besides. and when i was done giving him all my truth, he would say "that's it?" and insist there must still be more. to do this to a love is to make them become normal, perhaps even banal, and to rieve them of the little secretive bits that make up themselves. but to learn of your lover in a way that allows you to appreciate all the secrets, the fine tuning, the history, that is something which shall bring the both closer together and leave each still interested in the other. this kind of sharing does not rend, it streches to include the two. and is mutual or not at all. did i make myself clear or did i go around in a circle?

"You can tell what i say is true by the way. . ." - "Tale" Ger Killeen

[wolven.livejournal.com]

Say it all, don't say it all at once. But you know what? I don't think that it Has to be that way. People don't Stop growing and Changing, just because they're with someone. The other person simply SEES the growth. Any period of time when you're not with each other is a period of time when something New has changed, in that person, and yourself... More to find out, later. Always more to find out.

Mystery will always be there, until you know each others' souls. Fully. Merged-With-Like. Totally. That doesn't happen, yet.

Re: "You can tell what i say is true by the way. . ." - "Tale" Ger Killeen

[raoin.livejournal.com]

call me a pessimist, but i doubt there will come a time where we (or myself and anyone out there for that matter) will be Merged-With-Like. and you're right, people never stop changing, just you do get to see them change when you're that close, and sometimes you might not notice. this is usually why its healthy to take some time apart, go to school/work etc. spend weekends alone on occasion. there is always more to find out, but that doesnt mean you should try to know as much as you can in one go.

Yes

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. Absolutely Everything.
I drink my lover like water, or air, and can never get enough. But the appreciation thereof is more like (appropriately enough) good mead, and therefore each new complexity only adds to my fascination and intoxication.
Now, were it only "lover" in the sense that i made love with/fucked this person regularly/semi-regularly, perhaps with some degree of affection, i can't say for sure that i'd bother to achieve that somewhat strenuous level of appreciation for him or her. In fact i can say from experience that in those cases desire would not present itself or would not be strong enough to support that kind of effort. Fine mead is a wonderful thing, but sometimes MD 20/20 does the trick, eh?

But i am lucky enough to have as a lover my dearest friend and Partner, for whom i harbor deepest respect and truly unconditional love, and therefore a Deeper knowing is a very happy prospect indeed. I have nothing to hide from a Partner, and, my proclivities and idiosyncracies taken into account, once that level is reached there is nothing worth hiding from me. Besides, NightFall and i have been scaring the Screaming Neon Bejesus out of each other for a Long Time, way before we were lovers. We kind of like it by now.
" Oh my gawd, you thought/did/considered/were influenced by/consumed/fucked/defentestrated WHAT!?!?!?...........................Wow...cool."

So what's your answer?

love in raindrops
saigh

Re: Yes

[wolven.livejournal.com]

Oddly shocked that you even have to ask. I Always want to know. No matter/because of/including/especially what might bother me, for a little while. It's Them, and It's Us. I want to know everything.