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Rob Zombie - [Bring Her Down (To Crippletown)]--- Avatar-esque dreams, last night involving some sort of quest for something or other.

Sections laster there was me riding a bike down Reverse-DeKalb Avenue (east was west and things were on the opposite sides of the street), and meeting up with [livejournal.com profile] raoin in between Horizons and the East Lake MARTA station. SHe was also on a bike, and we both watched as thetrain went by, overhead, making us late for class, or almost. Horizons was still actual west, from the station. (The Beatles - [Eleanor Rigby]). I stopped because I flipped over the handle-bars, and tumbled. I stood up, and Patrick waved to us, and Jacosa was there, along with everyone else I knew from the party, the other night. They are all standing on the corner wating for the bus, but that becomes

The Darkest of the Hillside Thickets - [My Tank]--- A house that, while small, was still very nice, and spacious, inside. More than enough room for all the people who lived there. They were all standing around in the hallway, now, or the kitchen, or both. I was talking and chatting, and enjoying the commraderie, and so on, when I notice Jacosa kissing a guy much older than she, seemingly to make a point to me, and all assembled. (Pop Will Eat Itself - [Everything's Cool]). Someone, i think it was Sara, made a remark that someone had said that "Damien was theworst something something something" at the party. I asked "Which one? There were two Damiens there. I went to leave, because I had to get to class, and this girl who was like a cross between Molly Rinwald, the girl I know named Amanda, and someone else I vaguely remember from highschool came up to me as I got to the living room and started kissing me. We made out for a little bit, and then I decided that I wouldn't leave, yet, and I made excuses of having forgotten something, at the party. I was about to head down into the basement with her, when I stopped and told her I couldn't, because I had a girlfriend. (Claude Debussy - [Jeux de Vagues]). In the dream we had known each other for years, and had been really close, in hichschool, but she had never thought of me, that way. She broke down and started crying, telling me about her inability to emotionally connect, and how it was starting to freak her out, because she'd had a one-night stand, the other night, and couldn't deal. I told her that it would all be okay, and that I was very sorry.

Went to the bathroom, to clean up (one of three on this floor of the house), and Other, and started thinking about Babylon 5/Battlestar Galactica, and someone dying, and the others writing a poem to his widow about Everything he'd done, the good and the bad, the times he'd refused the advances of other women, the lives he'd saved, the time he gave away thei position to the enemy. All of it. Richard Dean Anderson was there, and there was some kind of memorial being built to the weaponry of the past thousands of years. When it was activated, the General/Emperor was still inside the field radius, and it set off his alert band. The Alien inside sang a song about something or another, and they were all confused; he said "That's because I have Damien," meaning some other Damien.

Tom Waits - [The Black Rider]--- Very strange dreams, those..

Semester starts, today. Don't have much else to say, besides that...

How are you?

Oh wait: From [livejournal.com profile] hametsunosaturn UFO Sighting Stats, for the last years.

'A confidential Ministry of Defence report on Unidentified Flying Objects has concluded that there is no proof of alien life forms.'

Voltaire - [God Thinks]--- More Links abot the Dak Matter Modeling, from [livejournal.com profile] wacko1138.

Ta.

Date: 2007-01-08 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] misanthropic1.livejournal.com
ok i realise the above bit where you were kissing a girl and then didn't go any further because you had a girlfriend was a dream, but i just wondered: what's your opinion on monogamy in relationships? like, where are the boundaries? what is ok, what isn't? i will try and make this into an entry, too, as it's been something floating around my mind for a long time, but what are the socially expected norms for monogamous, loving, long term relationships in regards to interaction with others of the opposite sex? of course i am interested in your personal opinion of this too, but before i make a total tit of myself in lj entry form i thought i would run this by you and see what you think: is flirting ok, in front of or out of sight of your S/O? or does that depend whether the perosn you are flirting with expects more or not? what about cuddling, kissing, sharing a bed non sexually, sharing a bed cuddled up, etc? i know the angle i am coming from on this makes little sense so please bear with me here, i am only after your advice to help me get my head round soemthing.

Date: 2007-01-08 06:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolven.livejournal.com
Well, my opinions on this are as follows:

Personally, I won't go past flirting with someone else, either in sight of or out of sight of my significant other, and taht only if the other person knows it's not going any further than that.

Cuddling, kissing, etc., is all out of bounds, for me, if it is claimed to be monogamous.

Sex with another is right out, as, if you're going to have sex with other people, you probably shouldn't claim to want to be in a monogamous relationship.

I believe that there will always be sexual attraction to other people, no matter how committed and loving the relationship, but the mark of monogamy is not acting on that attraction, and working toward acceptance of the fact.

Ostensibly, you love the person you're with, and you only lust after the one you're not. Love takes work, etc., etc.; doesn't just happen overnight and so forth. Even if it does, you still have to work at it, to keep it going.

Those are my half-formed opinions, as i'm a bit rushed, at the moment.

May say more later.

Date: 2007-01-08 06:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] misanthropic1.livejournal.com
so i'm not a freak then. wow. that makes a change. yup i have the same opinion of monogamy as you do. wow. i actually have the same opinion as someone who i have respect for. this is so rare it's almost miraculous.

Date: 2007-01-08 08:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolven.livejournal.com
I'm glad to be of assistance, then. :)

Date: 2007-01-09 12:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hametsunosaturn.livejournal.com
Did you like those UFO links, then?

Date: 2007-01-09 01:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolven.livejournal.com
Yep. Thank you muck, for them.

Date: 2007-01-09 03:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hametsunosaturn.livejournal.com
You're welcome "muck" for them. :P


Any time I find interesting kinds of articles, I usually think to send them to you, especially scientific-y ones. But I don't always know the reception of such articles, so it's good to know that you do like them, usually. ^_^

Date: 2007-01-09 05:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolven.livejournal.com
I'm always up for interesting science. It makes me happy, when there's neat stuff going on.

Especially contradictions like those two. ^_^

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